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5 Killer Online Dating Tips For Guys

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According to a study by Match.com, one in five singles have dated someone they met online. In 2010, 17% of marriages were couples who met on dating sites.

It's official--online dating is now mainstream, baby.

With all the women flocking to online dating sites, you'd think that guys would have no problem finding a suitable mates through these dating services.

You'd be wrong.

A shocking percentage of men who try online dating give up after just a few months. It's not that there aren't attractive women available. It's that some guys don't know how to market themselves in a way gets the response they want.

If you're not getting the kind of results you want from online dating sites... or if you've tried one in the past and quit out of frustration, you probably just need a few tweaks here and there to change your success rate. Here are some tips for online dating that will get you pointed in the right direction.

Be unique

If you're going to be successful on dating sites, you have to find a way to stand out from the crowd. A lot of guys make the mistake of trying to appeal to ALL women in the online dating pool. Taking this kind of bland, generalized approach only makes you look boring.

Instead, figure out what kind of women you're looking to attract and craft your image specifically toward appealing to them. Take a hard look at your profile. If it's a bunch of boilerplate nothing-ness, then replace it with something more exciting, dynamic and YOU.

Don't worry if not everyone likes you. He who tries to please everyone, pleases no one.

Show confidence

Women aren't attracted to needy, insecure men. Starting a message with a self defeating comment like, "You probably won't respond to this, but..." is the surest way to fail at online dating.

Here's a tip--it you're spending a lot of time trying to convince women of your worth, then you're showing your insecurity. The fact that you have something positive to offer should be an unstated assumption.

Use confident language in your messages like, "I'll talk to you soon..." rather than weak language like, "I really hope I hear back from you."

Be upbeat and positive

It's a simple fact: women want to be with guys who energize them.

You can't throw out this vibe with a doom and gloom profile where you ramble on about how sad and lonely you are.Ditch the woe-is-me stuff. Even if you FEEL hopeless, never SAY it.

Instead, load up your profile with positive, forward looking language and be sure to include at least a few pictures that show you being active and having a good time. Here are some good photo tips for online dating.

Use intriguing subject lines in messages

You'll never get a response if your message doesn't get opened.

Attractive women dozens of messages every week. If your subject line says something like, "Hi, there," it's likely to go straight to the trash bin without ever being read.

Instead, use intrigue to spark curiosity and get your messages read. Here are some examples of good subject lines.

"I just noticed that..."

"You remind me a little bit of..."

"3 things I'm really liking about your profile..."

"This cracked me up..."

Personalize your messages

Getting an email opened is only half the battle. Now is where you have to hook her.

The beginning of your email should always reference at least one thing in her profile. It can be a comment on anything from a picture she's posted to one of her listed interests.

Here's an example: "Hey, love that picture from Malibu Beach. I vacationed there a couple of years ago and had a fantastic time."

"I've got some pretty outrageous stories about that experience... I'll fill you in on those after we get to know each other. Otherwise, you might get the wrong impression. "

Keep in mind that a lot of women online are bored out of their minds with the responses they're getting. A little bit of wit in your emails goes a long way.

Of course, finding a woman to date is about making a good connection, but in the short term being flirtatious, funny and entertaining is your best bet for landing dates.

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How does a person become a serial killer?

Someone else just asked a Q about serial killers, so it sparked my curiosity.. have any of you done research about this? What is the psychology of one? Does something in their brain/thinking slowly warp over time, until they think with only a serial killers thoughts? Do they have varying personalities and sometimes they are normal and other times serial killers? Between serial killers, is there any similarities in background or life experiences before they become serial killers? Does everyone have the possibility of becoming a serial killer, just some never go that way because they have different life experiences?

Wow thats funny, when someone doesnt understand the ?they resort to calling other people stupid. I thought this an was a good ?The serial killers psychology is far beyond the grasp of normal human understanding. Though they are mentally sick, they themselves are not totally responsible for what they are, there are various other contributing factors.
Power has always been the center of a serial killer's thinking. These people are seriously obsessed with being in a position of power, be it sexually or in general life. They somehow like the feeling of being in charge and they will go to any extent, to make sure they are. This psychology branches from the background of child abuse, neglect and low self esteem. The children who grow up with a feeling of being unwanted and unloved, tend to become very violent and assertive in their adult life. And sometimes, this low self esteem and rejection finds a wrong vent in brutally murdering innocent people. These people being shy as kids have vivid imaginations, mostly violent and when in a position, they get obsessed with living their imaginations. It is really hard to imagine what goes on in a sick mind and is totally shocking when this sick mind goes ahead and makes it all come true, no matter what.
Are serial killers psychopaths? Yes most of them are. A psychopath is a person who doesn't believe in social norms, and ethical principles and is generally antisocial. These people seem to have strange set of morals and logics in life. It has been ascertained that their characteristics are very shallow, are charming, very impulsive, have criminal ways of thinking, are violent and abusive and show all of these traits from a very early age. Serial killers are known to gain satisfaction through their behavior.

The records of hundreds of serial killers indicate child abuse. Most of the serial killers are known to have suffered both mental and physical (sexual) abuse in their childhood and many a times the culprits being their own parents (incest). Absence of family morals, sometimes, even the absence of a proper functioning family, has lead to severely low esteemed children, who grew up to be mentally sick. Of all the abuses that a serial killer at some point of time suffered himself, rejection tops the chart. A few of them were born to prostitutes or teen-aged unmarried mothers and had to face situations pathetic enough to make them hate whole of the human race.

All in all, serial killers have a background of abusive parents, ignored childhood on account of a dysfunctional family, totally displaced moral values, extremely low self esteem and a seriously wrong concept of life and the working of the society. Many psychologists have observed that a proper family would have saved these killers from becoming what they came to be. Most of them have had an IQ of a genius but lacked a direction, ending up in a mess and moreover history stands evidence to the fact, that people with extraordinary IQs have eventually lost their minds and ended up being total freak shows and a threat to the society.

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